i could really use some advice myself. My best guy friend of about 10 years have gone to different rivalry high schools we met through church and we have been really good friends ever since. I can tell him my deepest darkest thoughts and secrets and i dont have to worry about him telling anyone. He gives me the greatest advice ever and we even talk about our relationships with the opposite gender. We have this tradition for summer time when the drive in theaters open. When ever either of us need to talk or just get something off our chests we go and sit in the back of his pickup truck and just talk. We have become so close that I am really close to his whole family, I am really good friends with his little sister and I talk to his parents at least once or twice a week. My family has always teased me about how close we are and saying that we should date. I have never seen him as anything but my best guyfriend. Ever since we graduated and are going to different colleges things have been the same. We skype all the time and text 24/7. This was until the night that I admitted to another guy i had met at school that i liked him and we started dating. Like litterally a few min. after me and my new boyfriend started dating my best guy friend texts me and tells me that he sees a future with me and that he loves me and that maybe someday we would get married. I was so confused and scared that i was going to lose my best guy friend because i didnt see him that way. 2 months me and my new boyfriend had dated and we broke up. My best guy friend has been asking me if there is something between us that is worth exploring. I love him as a friend but I dont see him romantically. But another part of me agrees with what he has been saying to me which is that even if we are risking our friendship maybe the outcome would be even greater. But i dont want to lose him as a friend if things dont work out between us. I almost lost him as a friend once when he was mad at me for not telling him about my bf. I literally cried and broke down because he means that much to me and is such a big part of my life. I really don't know what to do. Should I date him or should we just remain friends?
